How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 20.06.2025 11:17

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Why is my ex still keeping in touch with me even though she dumped me?
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Women like what they hear while men like what they see, it that true?
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Making more friends is a goal.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Is there anything wrong with me because I'm still single?
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Hangs out with loser friends.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
What sexual experience did you have at a highway rest area?
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
That's it for today.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Ask yourself:
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Why do very skinny girls get more male attention if it is true that men like curves?
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
We white women don't like white men. Do you have any issue with that?
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Do not set goals—set systems.
Procrastinates a lot.
Do you find Anushka Sen attractive?
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Why are the Chinese so sensitive to Western criticism?
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Does not procrastinate.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
What I need from you?
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.